Saturday, February 28, 2009
Here's the latest updates on Jacob's care:
Jacob is getting 5 ounces of milk a day, which by comparison is a small amount, but is part of the process to wake up his stomach and intestines. He is still on a conventional ventilator, but his settings are minimal and the doctors seem pleased. Our next steps are to increase feedings so that his body gets stronger and he can be on less IV fluids for nutrition. We also are going to decrease the amount of nitric Jacob gets in his air, which will allow us to make more improvements with ventilation. It would be one less thing Jacob is dependent on.
There are so many of you praying for us and for Jacob's progress. Here are some specific things that we can petition to God on Jacob's behalf.
1)Please pray that Jacob can get off the ventilator and onto "Vapotherm." This would mean that Jacob is taking control of his own breathing and will not have a tube down his throat.
2) Please pray that Jacob's body will tolerate more milk and that he will get stronger.
3) Please pray for the nurses and doctors that make decisions about Jacob's care; that God will be their hands throughout this journey.
Being here has opened our eyes. There are multiple families in the NICU that are going through similar trials. It is heartbreaking knowing that there are couples just down the hall that are fighting for their child's health, as we are. Sometimes the news is not positive and we are reminded of what God has brought Jacob through and of the miracles that are performed here on a daily basis.
Sunday, February 22, 2009
One small step for mankind...one giant leap for Jacob
Here's a picture of the oscillating ventilator leaving the room...
Also, in the last few days Jacob has been spending more time alert and wide-eyed. He can track better with his eyes, and likes looking at the paper cranes that hang just above his head. He finally enjoys being touched and really likes his head being rubbed. Jeff has a calming touch with Jacob and I am able to read and sing him to sleep! What a treat! This has been so special for us! We praise and thank God every day for the moments we are having with our beautiful son and continue to ask for more!

Thursday, February 19, 2009
The past few days
Overall, we are doing okay and Jacob continues to be on the slow road of recovery. I say slow because that's really what it is...SLOW. It can take weeks for babies to come off the ventilator, and weeks to be weened off medications, and weeks to be feeding properly, etc. We have made it over a huge hurdle with the surgery and there are challenges ahead but we have great hope. There still is the possibility that Jacob may not be able to come home with us, but we are asking God for that miracle. Jeff and I wouldn't be surprised if we are here for at least 3 months more. However, God can do amazing things, as we have witnessed so far, and would love to experience Jacob's homecoming.
Little Feet..
A side shot of his cuteness...Monday, February 16, 2009
God has smiled on us today!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Fun with Jacob

This is a book that was read to Jacob today, on Valentine's Day. The book is from Cousins Fernando and Stacy. It's about a rabbit named Jake that wants to explore the world. Along the way he helps a horse, pig, and duck by giving them food from his backpack. As he explores, he loses his way and the horse, pig, and duck help him find his way home. Perhaps Jacob has helped some friends on his way home! We are enjoying each moment we get to spend with our little miracle. He really continues to defy the odds and keeps fighting to be here. Thank you again for all the prayers that are going up on Jacob's behalf. We humbly ask for more especially as his second surgery approaches. May you be blessed today!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Surgery #2
Here's what we can ask God for:
That Jacob's liver will go ALL the way into his abdomen and that the surgeons will be able to patch his diaphragm in the proper place.
Also, that his right lung will continue to expand with GOOD alveoli and put less pressure on his heart and pulmonary vessels.

Dad changing a diaper...with all the IV lines and cords...it's alot harder than you think!

Jacob and his first baseball. He can play catch with Granpa!

There are so many of you that have shown us support through visits, cards, gifts, prayers, flowers, food, love, etc. It's so humbling that God has allowed us and Jacob to have the opportunity to receive this kind of support. Praise God for little miracles! It is our prayer that we will continue to witness more of these miracles each day with Jacob.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Moment by Moment...
Jacob, the nurses, and the doctors spent the rest of the night and all of the next day recruiting the left lung back from the collapse. Jacob had to go up on his vent settings and oxygen in order to get back to where we were...Jacob has bounced back and as of last night (Monday) he is back to where he was before the last episode.
There are a couple of tests to run today on Jacob, an ultrasound and echo. Pray that those tests show the doctors everything they need to see!
Sunday, February 8, 2009
A Few Good Days...
Mom, Dad, Gramma Jo, and Jacob
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Ask and You Shall Receive...
This is why we ask...
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
One step at a time...
I got to change Jacob's diaper today! For many of you this may seem silly or possibly on the gross side, but it was one more thing that Jeff and I got to do with Jacob that we thought we would not get to do. One thing they have been saying about Jacob is that his kidneys are really working well...he must take after me! ;)
We read a book with him called I Love You Through and Through. It starts out by saying all the things that you love about your child, "I love your top side, your bottom side, your inside, and outside." Jeff and I took turns reading each page to Jacob. I added some things into the story, as most teachers would do. I know Jacob heard us and being able to tell him how much we love him, face to face, was so special. There's nothing like reading a story to your newborn baby!
While these two things were very special, this is not the full picture of what we are going through in the NICU. In fact, today was quite depressing for Jeff and I. Jacob's day was okay and some progress was made with his ventilator and decreasing of some medicines. However, our discussion with one of the surgeons left us feeling like there is long road ahead even before the next surgery. He indicated that the surgeons want Jacob to be off the ventilator completely, or almost completely, before they will move the liver into his abdomen. He also indicated that moving the liver wouldn't solve our problems, that Jacob's lungs would still have to overcome so much in order for him to survive.
Our hearts are heavy today. We had so much hope in the first few days after birth and leading up to the first surgery, Jacob was defying all the odds. We had wanted so much for the first surgery to work and be on the road to recovery. Instead we are in this waiting period, just seeing what progress Jacob can make. In order for us have any hope for recovery and to bring our son home, Jacob needs to work his way off the ventilator. The nurses, doctors, and surgeons don't think that this will be possible for us. If it does happen, it will be a long, slow process.
We know that with God, all things are possible, and we have come this far by the Grace of God...so please pray for our "Glorious Impossible" and that Jacob can come off the ventilator sooner than expected and with far better results than can be explained by modern medicine.
Many Blessings to you all!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Catching Up...

Jeff helping the nurse move Jacob's head so he is not always laying on the same side.
The yellow earmuffs are helping Jacob since he is so sensitive to sounds...aren't they cute.
Mom getting a lesson on how to take Jacob's temperature. How fun!
Here are some of the things we can be specifically praying for:
2) That Jacob continues to grow stronger, not weaker, while we wait for our next surgery.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
One day after surgery...
Jacob (post-surgery)
Precious Little Feet
Beautiful hands
The Morning of Sugery and Latest Updates

Thursday, January 29, 2009
The doctors and surgeons came by and talked with Jeff. They are going to move ahead with surgery tomorrow morning at 7 AM for Jacob. The amazing part of this whole process is that they are going to turn his room in the NICU into an operating room. They close off the section of the NICU, scrub everything down, and allow for Jacob to remain in his room while they perform surgery. They bring the OR to him...amazing really. A couple of the doctors made a point of telling Jeff that they specifically chose Jacob's room in the NICU (which is larger and easy to access) because of this possibility.
The surgery would move his liver to his abdomen and then repair the hole in his diaphragm with a gortex like patch. They would also insert a tube into that empty space to drain any excess liquids that may build up after surgery. Then it's a waiting game to see what his right lung is capable of...
For those praying...Jeff and I would like to ask once more for a little extra, especially since it will be a BIG, and possibly LONG day for us and Jacob. We are only here by God's gracious hand and he has listened to our and your requests for a miracle.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Another day with Jacob

Here's some pictures of him with some stuffed animals given to him by his family.
Here's a more technical/medical update...Jacob has had his ups and downs in the NICU. One of the surgeons described him as "Livin on the Edge." That may become his theme song... He doesn't seem to like to be bothered, and all the necessary XRays, poking, and prodding that they do on him makes his numbers go down. However, once he can calm down, he seems to improve. The XRays showed today that his left lung is expanding well and they were able to see that his right lung is attached and they can see a small portion of it getting some oxygenation. This was good news! The doctors have been wanting him to stabilize on the ventilator before moving toward surgery. It looks like Friday or Saturday will be another BIG day for God to show Great Power through Jacob and the surgeons. Basically, the surgeons would move his liver into his abdomen, repair the hole in his diaphragm with a patch, and allow more space in his chest for his heart and lungs. This will also give the doctors a chance to see the amount of right lung that Jacob has. Many of the doctors that met with us prior to his birth said that Jacob would have to go on ECMO and so far, Jacob has not shown the need for ECMO. Another blessing and another way that God has responded! The doctors are saying that Jacob may still have to go on ECMO, either before or after surgery, but our prayer is that God/Jacob will continue to surprise them!!!
On another note...
Many of you have shown us great support through posting comments on the blog, sending an email, etc. But to my Cole Elementary family, I wanted to give a "shout out" to you! Every year in my class we learn how to fold paper cranes when we read the book Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes. It is a Japanese tradition to make a wish and fold cranes in hopes of seeing your wish come true. Jeff and I heard that you all gathered together to pray for us on Monday, and that many of you wrote special prayers on origami paper and learned how to fold a paper crane from one of my students...which I am sure was daunting... Here's a picture of your prayers hanging over Jacob's bed in the NICU. Many of the nurses from other areas have come to Jacob's bed to see these paper cranes/prayers. You are such special people!


Tuesday, January 27, 2009
First day of Life...
Tonight was a special night in our little family. I had the opportunity to just sit and enjoy the company of my son. The doctors came in and looked at his progress. While we were talking they spoke about numbers and data points, but to me, it was one more day that I was blessed to be with him. It was one day that we were told we would never get. So it was a special day.
Here is a picture of the flowers we have recieved to our room from many of you. We have been overwhelmed with the outpouring of love we have been shown through the calls, visits, comments to our blog, and prayers for our little family. Thank you!
He's Here, Praise be to God!
They were able to stablize him enough for the long trek to Children's Hospital in an incubator. They briefly showed him to me and then whisked him away to the NICU at Childrens. Jeff was able to go with him and the doctors as they transported him in a capsule. Jeff got to move him from the capsule to the bed. As of right now, Jacob is still in the NICU at Vanderbilt Children's hospital. We made it that far! Yay! We weren't even sure whether we would make it past labor and delivery before he would pass from this life, and yet, God showed us that Jacob is a FIGHTER! 

I was able to see him later that night, once the epidural had worn off and I could move my legs again. :) They had to wheel me over to Children's, almost a half mile walk, so that we could be together. What a joyful time for Jeff and I to be together with our son. We were so blessed to have that time with him together.


























